I John 3
16 By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought
to lay down our lives for the brothers.
17 But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet
closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him?
18 Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in
truth.
The
book of first John focuses a lot on love. John happens to be called the
disciple that Jesus loved. We know from the gospels that we now have to
commands- to love God with all our hearts, souls, and minds, and to love our
neighbor as ourselves. But what does loving others really look like?
According
to verse 16, we know love because of Christ’s sacrifice for us. Through Christ
freely giving his life for us, we know what real love is. The second half of
verse 16 makes it clear that Christ’s love for us is the standard with which we
should love others; it says we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.
Verse
17 continues on this thought. It says if anyone has the world’s goods and sees
his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love
abide in him? In other words, if we see someone in need, and we have the means
to help but don’t, is God’s love even in us? If we truly love one another as we
are commanded, we are willing to give of our gifts, talents, time, money, and
resources to help others.
Verse
18 says let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. In other
words, we show our love for others through action. It isn’t enough to just say
you love others, love them in deed and in truth. We love them according to
Scripture and help them through Scripture since that is the only truth.